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  • Rice Paper Bush (Edgeworthia chrysantha)

    February 22, 2025
    plants

    I bought this bush in Charlotte several years ago. Ann and I were wandering around. Not really shopping. But, open to the possibility of finding something interesting to take home with us. And this odd plant with lots of fuzzy cluster flowers and no leaves grabbed my attention and came home with me.

    It blooms at the end of winter and smells divine. It’s very much a sign of impending Spring.

    After that, it’s just a big green lump until it drops its leaves in Autumn.

    The display when mine blooms next to the ‘Yuletide’ camellia (which insists on blooming in February despite its name) rocks my socks.

  • Haiku is not 5-7-5

    February 7, 2025
    poetry and songs

    My friend, Luke, who is @LessEthereal most places online, is a huge fan of micropoetry. In particular, haiku and haiga. He pointed me to a website that’s doing a haiku-a-day thing for February. (Shortest month for the shortest poetry. Ha!)

    They have a page about what haiku actually is and it’s not what American schools teach. They are more interested in what is said than in the number of syllables. And the differences between the languages makes that ridiculous anyway.

    Taken from the “Not 5-7-5” article on that website: “Specifically, a haiku tries to invoke the time of year with a word that is typical of that season, such as snow for winter, or frog for spring.” And…” traditional haiku include words that function like a spoken sort of punctuation. More importantly, they cut the poem into two parts, creating a sort of juxtaposition, not only grammatically but also imagistically. The point is to carefully pair two images together in such a way that a shift or disjunction occurs between them. The art of haiku lies in creating the right amount of distance between the two parts, so the leap is neither too far (and thus obscure) or too close (and thus too obvious).”

    I have a new 1.5mm italic fountain pen that I can only use at home because I have to use ballpoint at work. And I have an empty journal that was lying around the house.

    I’m trying to write one thing a day that can lead me into writing sophisticated haiku. If I ever write one that I think ticks all the boxes, I’ll share.

    Editing on 5/5/25 to add another site I want to remember: https://owlcation.com/humanities/True-Haiku-Myth-5-7-5-how-to-write-haiku

    “The aim is to create a clear thought or image in as few words as possible while preserving the meaning and the rhythm you desire. “

  • Wonder Bread

    December 5, 2024
    a day in this life

    When I was 11, I got to spend extra time with my dad during school breaks because I was “too old for day care and too young to be left by myself all day.” On the way to the NCSU campus where he was finishing up his PhD, we passed a Wonder Bread factory. It was heavenly and that is a very physical memory for me. I remember the chill of the Fall air, the heater from the car blowing on my face and that scent! And I got bonus time with my dad, who was my favorite person in the world.

  • Pop Tarts

    August 7, 2024
    a day in this life

    When they were 3, my child desperately wanted watermelon pop tarts. They were being advertised heavily and Offspring thought they HAD to be delicious. I suggested that might not be the case. But, I was told they couldn’t say that if it wasn’t true. $3.59 was not too expensive for a lesson. So, I bought a box. First, they were appalled. Then, angry. And we had a conversation about advertising that stuck. Watermelon pop tarts have been a reference for nearly 30 years.

  • Nanny Pickles.

    July 17, 2024
    a day in this life, family, food & drink, home, Southern culture

    My paternal grandmother made sweet pickles every summer and they were the best. She always gave them freely to her children. So, we usually had some around.

    One time, I visited her as an adult and she gave me a lesson in making them. (I’m pretty sure I made a point of asking for a lesson when we were planning the trip. I got a couple of other, less complicated recipes from her then, too.) When I got home, I made my own pickles and checked in a couple of times to be sure I was making them correctly.

    When Nanny died in 1991, all of her descendents were scattered across 4 or 5 states. So, we tried to handle as much necessary business as we could before we headed home. After all the official stuff was done, we sorted out the small things and planned for who was coing back with trucks. Everyone got a piece of her cast iron cookwear. There were some quilts and quilt tops to sort out. And we started pulling out the canning.

    My grandmother would put up anything that she wasn’t going to eat immediately and she always had a kitchen garden. One of the things she grew and we loved was Hamby green beans, an heirloom variety that are mostly grown in that part of Appalchia. She had grapevines and picked wild blackberries for preserves. And there were the pickles.

    I think her children took the few half pint jars of preserves and, when we got everything else on the table, there were enough quarts of beans and pickles for everyone to take 3. I traded my pickles for beans because I had pickles and the recipe at home. My cousins thought I might be nuts. But, they didn’t hesitate to swap.

    A couple of years later, I brought 2 quarts to a family reunion. When we’d gotten unpacked, I heard my uncle ask, “Who saved Nanny’s pickles for 2 years and broke them out to share with this bunch?” He had an open jar in one hand and a fork in the other. I said, “Your mother didn’t make those.” “Who did? You?” I grinned and nodded. He said, “They taste just like hers.” I said, “Who do you think taught me to make them?”

    I got all the bragging I could hope for during that trip. (The smile my dad gave me when I caught him having a sandwich by himself with my pickles on his plate was worth a fortune.) And my cousin asked if I’d share the recipe. I said of course. Bec was her grandmother, too. I figured that recipe belonged to all of us.

    When it was time to leave, there was still one jar unopened and a little bit in the bottom of the one we’d been working on. I asked my uncle if he’d like to take them with him. And he asked if I was sure. When I replied that I had 4 more jars just like those at home, he hid them under the front seat of his car.

    My dad noticed they were missing and asked if we’d eaten all of them. I told him I’d given the rest to his brother and he suggested that he would have liked some. I told him I’d bring them when I came to visit in a few weeks and he was satisfied.

    I kept him supplied for the rest of his life. My cousin made them for her dad and her family, too. My mother is still happy to get them and I have a couple of friends and other relatives who are glad for a jar to show up. Making them has been a part of my summer for at least 35 years.

    We can buy sweet pickles at the grocery. But, my family thinks this recipe is better.

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