and as much as I love my yard, it’s getting tiresome to maintain. So, we have begun planning a move.

My mother lives in a Continuous Care Retirement Community and we think that looks like a great way to be old. And we think we can afford it. Selling our house will provide our buy-in and we have enough monthly income to afford the monthly fee and still have “play money” leftover. If I can’t go out a little and travel some, what’s the point of anything?

We have always enjoyed Winston Salem and the last time we visited, it finally clicked that a CCRC there could work. It’s an hour from my job, which is twice the distance I drive now. I have a coworker who’s been doing it for years. Some people have longer commutes, depending on where they live and I don’t think that will be onerous. I listen to a book as I drive home now.

We intend to tour a couple of places in August. Why August? Why not August? I think that came from an idea that the greatest majority of people will be vaccinated for COVID-19 by then.

Originally, we said we’d go when I’m 65. Then, we agreed that we could go as soon as our cars and a couple of other things are paid for. Which means, possibly as soon as 2 years from now, And that gives me some time to get my head around leaving the place I expected to occupy until I required a mortuary.

I find myself looking around at the possessions that own me, considering what will absolutely have to go with me and what can be given away. And who will care about having any of the detritus of my life?

I think maybe we’ll move into the new, one-bedroom apartment and have one last hurrah here, inviting friends to take anything that catches their eyes. And ask Habitat to come the next day to take the rest.